Trauma Therapy in Kyneton

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When the Past Won't Let Go

Trauma doesn't come in just one shape. It might have been a single, overwhelming event—an accident, assault, or loss that shattered your sense of safety in the world. Or it might be the accumulated weight of prolonged experiences: growing up in an unpredictable environment, years of emotional or physical harm, or a series of losses that never fully resolved.

Some trauma is relational—the wounds we carry from how we were treated, neglected, or misunderstood by people who mattered. Some is developmental, shaping how we learned to protect ourselves and relate to the world. And some is complex, weaving together multiple threads of harm over time.

No matter the form, trauma shows up in your nervous system. You might notice yourself hypervigilant, scanning for danger. Or numb, disconnected from your body and emotions. You might experience flashbacks that pull you back into the past, or intrusive thoughts that won't let you rest. You might struggle to trust, to be intimate, to feel safe even in objectively safe situations.

This isn't weakness. This is your nervous system doing exactly what it's designed to do: protect you from further harm. The problem is that the alarm system got stuck on, and now it's working against you instead of for you.

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How Trauma Lives in Your Nervous System

When a threat occurs, your nervous system has three main survival responses: fight, flight, or freeze. During the traumatic event, one of these responses was activated. But often, something interrupted the completion of that response—the threat didn't end the way your body expected, or safety didn't arrive, or you were forced into submission before your nervous system could finish its protective action.

So the energy of that incomplete response gets stored in your body. Your nervous system stays in a heightened state of arousal, waiting for the response to complete. It's like a muscle that's been contracted for years, never fully relaxing. This stored activation is what we experience as anxiety, hypervigilance, numbness, or those sudden surges of panic that seem to come from nowhere.

The key insight is this: your nervous system doesn't process trauma through words alone. It processes through the completion of the survival response. And that's where somatic work becomes transformative.

By gently bringing awareness to where the trauma lives in your body, we can help your nervous system complete what was interrupted. As those protective responses finally complete, your nervous system begins to regulate. The alarm comes down. Your body learns—truly learns, at a cellular level—that the danger has passed.

A Different Approach to Trauma Therapy in Kyneton

My approach integrates Somatic Experiencing, Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, and attachment-informed work—creating a comprehensive pathway to healing.

Phase One: Stabilization & Safety

Before we touch trauma, we build a foundation of stability. This means developing skills to regulate your nervous system, grounding techniques, and establishing safety in the therapeutic relationship. You learn to feel more present and resourced. This phase is essential and never rushed.

Phase Two: Processing & Resolution

Once stability is established, we gently work with the trauma itself. Not by reliving it, but by helping your nervous system complete the survival responses that were interrupted. We work at a pace your system can handle, always keeping you resourced and grounded. Healing happens in the body.

Phase Three: Integration & Resilience

As the trauma resolves, we consolidate the changes and help you integrate this new capacity for safety and presence. You develop lasting resilience, not just symptom relief. This is where you truly reclaim your life and your future.

What trauma therapy sessions look like

What Sessions Look Like

When you come in for trauma therapy, there's no agenda but your wellbeing. We'll sit together, and I'll be fully present with you. We might talk about what's happening in your life, what brought you to therapy, or what's most pressing today.

As we talk, I'm tracking your nervous system: your breathing, your posture, the tone of your voice, the way your body is responding. This information is as important as your words. When appropriate, I might gently draw your attention to what's happening in your body—not to analyze it, but to create awareness.

You're always in control. If something feels too intense, we pause. If you want to go deeper, we explore. The pace is yours, and my job is to provide skillful, attuned support as we navigate this journey together.

Some sessions might involve gentle movement, noticing breath patterns, or simply sitting with particular sensations. Other sessions might be more conversational. There's no "right" way—only what serves your healing.

Addressing Your Concerns

Do I need a formal PTSD diagnosis to work with you? +

No. A formal diagnosis isn't necessary. What matters is that you've experienced something too much for your nervous system to process, and you're struggling with the aftermath. Some people have classic PTSD; others have complex trauma from prolonged experiences or developmental wounds. The label matters less than your experience. Let's talk about what you're carrying.

Will I be retraumatized in therapy? +

My approach is designed to prevent retraumatization. We work at your pace, building safety and stabilization first. Rather than asking you to relive trauma, we work with your nervous system to process what's stored in your body. You're always in control, and we take care to keep you grounded and resourced throughout the process.

How long does trauma therapy take? +

It depends on the nature and extent of the trauma. Single-incident trauma might resolve in 6-12 sessions; complex or developmental trauma typically requires longer work—often 6-12 months or more. We'll assess where you're at in your discovery call and create a realistic timeline. What's important is that healing happens, not that it happens on a predetermined schedule.

Can I do trauma therapy online? +

Yes. Many people do excellent trauma work online. The relational presence and attunement that makes therapy effective translates well to video sessions. Some aspects of somatic work may be slightly adapted, but the healing is equally powerful. We can discuss whether online works best for you.

What if I've tried therapy before and it didn't work? +

Previous therapy experiences, even unsuccessful ones, are valuable information. Sometimes the approach didn't fit, or the timing wasn't right. My integrative somatic approach may resonate differently. The fact that you've tried before shows courage and commitment to healing. Let's explore what might be different this time.

Sebastian Kitchen, trauma-informed psychotherapist

Sebastian Kitchen

PACFA Registered Integrative Psychotherapist

My approach draws from Somatic Experiencing (Peter Levine), Sensorimotor Psychotherapy (Pat Ogden), and Integrative Attachment Therapy (informed by Harvard Medical School research). I understand that trauma lives in the nervous system, and healing requires working at that level.

Dr Tra-ill Dowie PhD, Clinical Supervisor

I work under clinical supervision with Dr Tra-ill Dowie PhD (dual PhDs in Philosophy and Psychiatry), ensuring the highest standards of care and ethical practice.

Free 15-minute discovery call. Let's discuss your experience and explore whether my approach feels right for your healing journey.

You Don't Have to Do This Alone

Healing from trauma is possible. Whether you're in Kyneton, Melbourne, or anywhere in Australia or internationally, it starts with reaching out and having a conversation with someone who understands. A free 15-minute discovery call is your first step toward trauma therapy that works with your nervous system.

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Kyneton Office

29 High Street, Kyneton VIC 3444

Also available in Melbourne & online in Australia or internationally.

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Contact

Phone: 0490 333 809

Email: book@sebkitchentherapy.com

Hours & Locations

Hours: Monday to Thursday, 9am–6pm

Locations: Kyneton & Melbourne, Victoria • Online in Australia or internationally

Individual Sessions

$140
50-minute session

Couples Counselling

$200
50-minute session